This was initially published on the Busy Black Woman blog on 
Bastille Day (yeah I know), and I was just going to let that be until I 
saw this fuckery on Facebook. I have an updated message for folks like him, read on:
My Dad was woke back before we knew that would be the thing to
 be...because when we were growing up, his woke-ness was uncool. It was 
the 80s and as a proud, yet jaded veteran of the Civil Rights Movement, 
he restricted us from participating in anything he deemed to be counter-revolutionary. So we didn't watch the Dukes of Hazzard
 or any classic cartoons with racial caricatures (at least, not when he 
was around). He always belonged to a black bank. Our African names, 
black dolls, and annual observance of African Liberation/Malcolm X Day 
were nods to his embrace of pan-Africanism before everyone else caught 
on in the 90s. And my Dad hates Ronald Reagan, John Wayne, Elvis 
Pressley, and Gone With the Wind.
Of course, like most 
people, his woke-ness could be inconsistent whenever he hit the snooze 
button. We couldn't play "Cowboys and Indians" although we were avid 
Washington football fans (even before Doug Williams). He won't celebrate Kwanzaa. For years he 
thought OJ was framed. And while we could happily spend the day at the 
beach, eat barbecue, and shoot off our little fireworks on July Fourth, 
it was never in celebration of America's birthday. So it made me beam 
with pride upon seeing how so many of my friends posted Frederick 
Douglass's powerful speech, "The Meaning of July Fourth for the Negro" last week since Daddy had made me read it years ago as part of his stance against celebrating American Independence.
For
 the record, my take on July Fourth falls somewhere between my Dad's 
outright hostility and other folks' unbounded enthusiasm. Which means I 
have no opposition to celebrating the day for what it commemorates, but I
 reserve the right to remind folks that the struggle for freedom 
continues. So no, you probably will not catch me wearing my patriotism 
on my ass like a cheap pair of American flag leggings (made in China). 
However, I am happy to wave a few sparklers (also made in China) while I
 
recite the words to Langston Hughes' "I, Too" or Claude McKay's "America"
 or Maya Angelou's "These Yet to be United States". Or even better, as the
 Toddlersaurus, my Niece, and I belt out our favorite songs from the 
musical Hamilton. 
Just
 as my Dad and others were disillusioned by the post-Civil Rights era 
backlash, I can appreciate how disheartening it is to confront the 
realities of this post-Obama era. From that race-baiting NRA video to the retreat by the Justice Department from protecting the rights of citizens to outright religious intolerance and hostility, it is easy to understand why folks have lost faith. Unfortunately, hypocrisy is as American as 
pumpkin pie--literally, ever since those eloquent words of equality and liberty were penned by a 
slaveowner whose "slave mistress" was his wife's half sister.
Despite
 the wide gulf between our ideals and reality, we too can celebrate 
America. We can believe in the hope expressed by both the Declaration of Independence and the Frederick Douglass speech because this is our 
country too. If we can celebrate both men for their greatness while acknowledging their very human weaknesses (Douglass' extracurricular activities), then we must learn to reconcile our 
disappointments with American shortcomings to our pride in American 
progress.
Since I mentioned it earlier, it is the genius of Hamilton
 that reminded me how we are all inheritors of the American legacy. Only
 in America could a Puerto Rican rapper write a Tony Award-winning 
musical on the life of an undocumented Caribbean immigrant who ascends 
from obscurity to notoriety by aligning with a black/brown George 
Washington. American History is our story too, so marginalizing or 
othering us doesn't negate that fact.
And in case you might be wondering, I can celebrate America and stay
 woke. In the words of the prophet known as James Baldwin, "I can love 
America more than any country in this world, and, exactly for this 
reason, I insist on the right to criticize her perpetually."
Here's what I added for that idiot in Florida:
I was born here. And since you aren't a Native American, nor did your family come over on the Nina, Pinta, Santa Maria, Mayflower,
 or on a slave ship, try again. Check your family tree to see if its 
roots are as deep as mine, because I assure you that your white skin is 
the only advantage you have. So you can keep your "Go Back to 
Africa" foolishness.
You can also keep those historical 
commemorations that have been purposefully sanitized, such as folks' 
misplaced nostalgia for the Confederacy. Let's be clear that if you 
insist on dedicating public space to venerate Confederate generals, then
 it should be okay if we drape those hallowed monuments in white bed 
sheets...because that is your history too. Or if we install colored water fountain signs nearby, because that is also your history.
And one more thing, now that I'm on a roll, let's address the anti-PC campaigns that want to graft Confederate history onto MLK Day, but don't want to acknowledge Native Americans during Columbus Day...yeah, stop. Ditto for White History Month. Get over yourselves and stop conflating freedom of speech with a license to offend. 
It is our history, all of it--the good, the bad, and the shameful. The triumphs and the tragedies. George Washington and George W. Bush. Thomas Jefferson to Barack Obama, and even the current President. Hopefully he'll be history soon enough. 
 
 
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